but the events which occured during last few years have made me sure about this principle...yes,our life turns in the same direction as we want it to be..we steer the direction of our lives with our thoughts,attitude and motives.
I have come across many people in my life who attire themselves with negativity,sometimes it is fake too!!
yes,u heard me right,"fake negativity"..i dont know wat they achieve by this but i have seen many..well,let me explain fake negativity..haven't u come across some people who find bliss in grief??certainly you must have....crying 4 whatever they haven't achieved...i really feel pity for them as they have a lot more than what they are craving for but they are blindfolded with negativity...sometimes i come across many persons who copy someone else's problems to show it as their own.....really ridiculous!!
Let me give you an example of this..
IIT-JEE is considered very important exam for any +2 student with PCM as his/her subject.
Also it is considered as one of the toughest exam
definitely,there r students who deserve to be in these "so called" premiere institutes but do not get through this examination.<
RESULT:
these deserving students reach "NOT SO GOOD" engineering colleges and are totally reluctant to studies
now,CASE STUDY:
since,they were deserving,naturally they are intelligent;moreover it is not a "so good " institute,therefore they excel here without much effort..result...other classmate give them status of demi gods and start biting their nails seeing their talents!!
NOW HERE COMES FAKE NEGATIVITY-
the new friends of this new "einstein" become used to hear the negative talks of "einstein" and take it as a style statement and try to copy it and fake it in front of other classmates to prove their supremacy but they dont realise that it makes them a laughing stock of the town.
Believe me,I have come across many students of this species and they are abundant.
wel there are some other type of species too:
There is another breed who cannot be optimistic about anything.They have a peculiar type of doubt in their mind that if they will be happy then their happiness will fade away very soon and so they opt to remain in miserable plight...wat a waste of LiFE...
hey...you must be thinking that the title was of positive attitude but wat i am writing is all about negativity....c'mon this was the aim of my writing.try to figure positivity in all this and also acknowledge me regarding this..
hope to write something afresh again in few days..till then..ciao:)
DISCLAIMER:
The above example of "fake negativity" was taken in context of students of non-premier instituitions[atleast they are considered to be not so good,atleast not in top 5].The author has no idea what happens in premier institutes and what the students feel there as he has no experience of that.Any sentiments,if hurt was not intended.

a very good piece of thought has been given by you....the number of such people has been incresing day by day....lets do 1 thing....why dont you give a seminar on positivity in our college or may be class....u r really adept at presenting ur idea...i m really impressed.......hoping to see some good new articles of urs
ReplyDeletewow!!! yar...how can u think so deeply....i never even noticed these facts...infact i can relate to many of dem;)....smtimes we do try nd be negative...nd 90% people do not admit dat dre result is due to dre own actions...be it gud or bad...we put d blame/reward on destiny...thanx 4 making us realize such n imp trait of human behaviour...keep up d good work...cheers :)
ReplyDelete@Pramod rathi
ReplyDeletethanx bro 4 boosting my morale..yes,i agree that the number is going high day by day...and it is really alarming...and thanx again 4 such a nice idea..definitely we should take an initiative and let me assure you that i have an idea regarding this[not only this,even i have some more issues that i would like to discuss]...i invite you and more freinds who are interested in such activities to present their ideas so that we could do something before we part from our alma-mater...
hoping to see such more feedbacks from you in the near future
@Akanksha
ReplyDeletehey..nice to see you here...really and a heartful thanks 2 you for such appreciation....you are absolutely right that cursing destiny has become a fashion in today's era...this is really the down fall in the thinking process of common man..hope we bring some awareness regarding this issue in common mass,atleast we can make a start...
it gave me immense pleasure knowing that you liked my first InSIghT in human life n behaviour....hope we could come up with more better ideas in near future...
your co-operation is mandatory!![:)]
well I myself is a negative thinker to sme extent,bt u wrote in such a impressive way dat i have to extract sme +ve aspect frm it...u have talked all abt the negative side of negativity,bt i wud like to put sme stress on its other side....dont u think the person who loves to b as an underdog has negative thinking in sme extent?
ReplyDeleteis it rite being so +ve to challenge ur own destiny,dont u think ur +ve thinking'll convert into ur overconfidence very soon and dat'll definitely let u down...u cant challenge ur destiny on the basis of ur +ve thinking....so being -ve is gd in sme extent.
i totally agree abt the concept of ur fake negativity...even i have cme across many ones like dis....however dis negativity attracts a lot.just think abt it ...y is it so?
@anjali
ReplyDeletehey...here comes the lady with all the blasts needed..which was really missed till nw:)
I really appreciate your views on this topic and hats off to your originality and genuinity of thoughts.
i also appreciate your boldness as there are very few left who can come out in open and flaunt about their negative thoughts although there is a wave of postive air blowing everywhere,atleast where positivity is treated as a virtue!!really..superb!!
now let us come to the point..there are few points which u have pointed out are non-singular i.e we can't arrive on a solution on those points even after 1000hrs of discussion..one of them being "CHALLENGING DESTINY".
look "destiny" is an abstract term and every individual's opinion varies on it and none of them can be proved either "perfect" or "futile".
well..other very interesting take of yours is "conversion of +ve thinking in over confidence".
hey...u r misinterpreting me on this issue..let me explain this by the oldest example of the book:
+ve thinking is to see HALF FILLED GLASS rather than to see it as HALF EMPTY.It is all about to see silver lining even in the darkest cloud...to find hope and happiness in even the gloomiest situation...that is wat i mean by +ve thinking that bring cheers to life...and in my opininon it seldom crosses its way with overconfidence.
There are plenty of examples where courage and +ve thinking was misunderstood as over confidence by NEGATIVE THINKERS, but at last,the Courage triumphs.
moreover,if u treat +ve thinking as over confidence then what is wrong in treating -ve thinking as UNDER CONFIDENCE!!
that is why i was telling that these issues are very abstract and are opinion based like who came first?"egg or hen"...
I hope u r getting my point..its all about ur views and how u see the world around you..
and a very good question asked by you..i.e..why negativity attracts??
I will give its answer in details in my next article in dis very blog..as many had asked the same question..hope you are satisfied my positive response...hope to see you again in very short time..
and yes your "-ve critic" was really to the point and i hope to see them again and i also hope to get a few +ve response after reading my articles....till then ciao:)
hey its Superbb dear ..I know you have talent, after all u r MY brother :)well keeping jokes apart,You have framed your views very well and expressed it nicely..Its very true that your life depends on your own attitude ..Sometimes we give up on the name of destiny but continous,sincere and smart efforts really does the miracle ..Life is only how u take it ..Only thing is u have to be fully involved ,give ur true dedication and yes carry a bit of positive attitude with it ,believe me no one can stop you ..But sometimes our atmosphere,circumstances forced us to think negative in life , which is natural...bcas we are not GOD ,we didn't have control on our emotions and sometimes we feel so weak and so low that negative thoughts overpower the positive one ....And yes this is what life is .. Mixture of Joy and Sorrow ,Good And Bad..But the ratio of Joy and Sorrow YES DEPENDS ON US ...
ReplyDeleteGood work bro....
ReplyDeletei really admire your endeavour. Wat a beginning!!!!Superb. The best thing i felt about ur article is that its so smoothly written that i read it in a flow and felt like finishing reading it before doing any other work...Really impressive!!!
"Fake negativity": i liked dis idea of urs.
Sarcastic remarks like "so called premiere..." , "not so good..." point to something deeply burried in ur heart but neways dat DISCLAIMER is good...:)
Wish to see the miracles of positive thinking from you!!!
Keep up the good work!!!:)
All the best.
@ ashu and shilpi di
ReplyDeletea heartful thanx 2 both of you for giving such a nice comment..and ya both of you are right...i agree to both of you..and ya shilpi di..ur thought regarding ratio of joy and sorrow was unparallel..thanx alot...keep visiting and posting:)