I thought to start with something (+)ve....and what other topic can be better than this??wat say??
I have been advocating this principle since my early days but was not very sure of its results.
but the events which occured during last few years have made me sure about this principle...yes,our life turns in the same direction as we want it to be..we steer the direction of our lives with our thoughts,attitude and motives.
I have come across many people in my life who attire themselves with negativity,sometimes it is fake too!!
yes,u heard me right,"fake negativity"..i dont know wat they achieve by this but i have seen many..well,let me explain fake negativity..haven't u come across some people who find bliss in grief??certainly you must have....crying 4 whatever they haven't achieved...i really feel pity for them as they have a lot more than what they are craving for but they are blindfolded with negativity...sometimes i come across many persons who copy someone else's problems to show it as their own.....really ridiculous!!
Let me give you an example of this..
IIT-JEE is considered very important exam for any +2 student with PCM as his/her subject.
Also it is considered as one of the toughest exam .
definitely,there r students who deserve to be in these "so called" premiere institutes but do not get through this examination.<>
RESULT:
these deserving students reach "NOT SO GOOD" engineering colleges and are totally reluctant to studies>Now they start brooding over their past and create a totally negative atmosphere.
now,CASE STUDY:
since,they were deserving,naturally they are intelligent;moreover it is not a "so good " institute,therefore they excel here without much effort..result...other classmate give them status of demi gods and start biting their nails seeing their talents!!
NOW HERE COMES FAKE NEGATIVITY-
the new friends of this new "einstein" become used to hear the negative talks of "einstein" and take it as a style statement and try to copy it and fake it in front of other classmates to prove their supremacy but they dont realise that it makes them a laughing stock of the town.
Believe me,I have come across many students of this species and they are abundant.
wel there are some other type of species too:
There is another breed who cannot be optimistic about anything.They have a peculiar type of doubt in their mind that if they will be happy then their happiness will fade away very soon and so they opt to remain in miserable plight...wat a waste of LiFE...
hey...you must be thinking that the title was of positive attitude but wat i am writing is all about negativity....c'mon this was the aim of my writing.try to figure positivity in all this and also acknowledge me regarding this..
hope to write something afresh again in few days..till then..ciao:)
DISCLAIMER:
The above example of "fake negativity" was taken in context of students of non-premier instituitions[atleast they are considered to be not so good,atleast not in top 5].The author has no idea what happens in premier institutes and what the students feel there as he has no experience of that.Any sentiments,if hurt was not intended.
